Happy birthday.....in a few days :( not so much today

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Today was to be the big day but a couple of little ones did not feel well.  But that is ok I stopped in at the place we were planning to go so I could get an idea of the cost to expect....and maybe a park is a better idea lol.

I remember the first two birthdays for this little one. She had no reaction to anything for either birthday. Even though she had been to every celebration this family has had. There has always been an emotional disconnect. For her third birthday we had a bit larger celebration as her bio grandma had been released from prison so she wanted to make up for lost years and events. Again it was as though she was not the guest of honor.

By her fourth birthday she got the hang of the cake but the singing made her cry. Her fifth birthday was celebrated at preschool by giving others small gifts..giving came naturally to her.

We kept today to just us and she was thrilled just getting cupcakes with candles. Gifts were nice but she really didn't play with them just opened the packages and put the items aside. So a big event in a noisy place may not be all we would like it to be.
Happy birthday dear little one!!!

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